Wednesday 30 December 2015

WOMAN ASKS FOR N13M PAY FOR THE 18 YEARS SHE SPENT WITH HUSBAND




This is a story I came across while working as a volunteer for child abuse cases. I want to hear your opinion about who you think is right or wrong. The woman had been "married" for 18 years, the married is in quotes because it was not solemnised or a court wedding, she was living with him like in most African marriages,they moved in together with the consent of both families.

Wednesday 23 December 2015

MY HUSBAND IS GETTING MARRIED TO ANOTHER WOMAN IN 2 WEEKS



Hello, please kindly help with some useful advice. I got married 9 years ago, I love my husband very much in fact he is the only man in my life, he dis virgined me.  But 9 years of marriage and I still don't have a child.  I have done all sorts of things medical, herbal and spiritual to conceive but I have not been successful in having a child of my own .

I ALMOST KILLED MY 6 MONTHS OLD BABY OUT OF FUSTRATION







I am really sorry for what I did, but I don't know how to make it right without causing my child more pain. I am a Muslim from the Northern part of the country, I fell in love with an Igbo man. As can be expected both our parents were against the friendship. But we were in love and continued to see each other secretly. I later found out that I was pregnant, knowing that my father would kill me if he found out we decided to run away to the neighbouring country, we were fortunate to meet the Igbo Catholic community

Sunday 20 December 2015

MY WIFE CANT COOK AND DOES NOT WANT TO LEARN




My name is John, a graduate of OAU I met my wife at a birthday  party organized by a course mate, she was from a very influential family and was studying abroad, UK to be precise, you can imagine my joy when a beautiful girl like her approached  a guy like me from very humble background for friendship. I was the talk of the party, for attracting the friendship of a girl so beautiful and from a wealthy background, I did not really expect much to come out of the relationship, we were worlds apart so to speak.

MY WIFE SAYS I AM SLEEPING WITH THE HOUSEHELP






My name is Ernest in July will have been married for 10yrs to a very beautiful woman, the mother of my four beautiful kids. MOC, that is the nick name I use for my wife, it  stands for Mother Of the Children, has been a blessing to me.
I have prospered since marrying her, God has really blessed me.

Wednesday 16 December 2015

I HAVE A CHILD FOR MY EX, MY HUSBAND THINKS THE CHILD IS HIS




My name is Joy, but my life has become joyless because of a stupid mistake I made.
I am married with 4 kids, I will be 35 in June, my husband is very loving and my marriage has been filled with Joy, happiness and proseperity since I got married in 2007 even though at the time I married him he was not the love of my life, I have grown to respect and love him.

SHOULD I KEEP THE BABY?



my name is Ene, an orphan when I was 15yrs old, I have 2 senior brothers and a sister, I am the last born.
My family does not have money to send me to school, so I went to live with one of our aunties.

When I became 23 I meet a boy he was very good to me and put me in apprentice to do hair dressing, he promised  to marry me, I was a virgin, he introduced me to his family.

Tuesday 15 December 2015

MY STEP BROTHER IN LAW TRIED TO SLEEP WITH ME, NOW AM IN TROUBLE FOR REPORTING HIM





Please don't mention names, my name is Lola(not real name)
I have a serious problem with my in laws.
My husband traveled a broad 3yrs ago, we have 2 kids a boy and a girl. Before he traveled we sold everything we had to pay for his visa, with the hope that we will recover it soon. After a year our rent expired, and my provision shop could not renew the rent. I and the kids had to move in with my in-laws. I never had problems with them before now, or so I thought. I gave them their due respect both old and young.

IS SHE REALLY USING A CHARM ON HIM?

Please
 I need your advice on how to handle an issue that has been bothering me for some time now.. I introduced my friend to a client of mine, he is a May and he supplies me with adire material.  A friend of mine saw him at my shop on my birthday hw gave me a gift of a set of gold jewellery something that really surprised me, pleasantly.

Tuesday 24 March 2015

MY WOMAN IS VERY DIRTY





A guy who wants to remain anonymous for obvious reasons sent in this mail.

Dear Beemee,

I have been living with a woman for some years now, I have a son from a previous relationship, she has 3 girls also from 2 previous relationships, I have nor problem with that,  I think I love her, but fixing a date for our marriage seems to be a problem....I don't want to marry her, I have my reasons.